Family Relationships & Parenting  


 
Alphabetical Book Offering in Family Realtionships
In this section you will find information on how raise happy and healthy children as well insight on how to guide the members of your family.

50 Wonderful Ways to Be a Single-Parent Family
In this slim, accessible book, well-known family enhancement therapy expert Barry Ginsberg provides busy single-parent families with insightful and inspiring suggestions on how to heighten familial intimacy, balance work and home life, enhance communication, and enjoy your family.

Adolescent Drug and Alcohol Abuse Adolescent Drug and Alcohol Abuse How to Spot It, Stop It, and Get Help for Your Family
Millions of teenagers experiment with drugs, at an average age of 13. Many go on to abuse or become dependent on alcohol or drugs, with potentially tragic consequences.


Black Families at the Crossroads: Challenges and Prospects, Revised Edition BOOK
This updated edition of the classic book Black Families at the Crossroads, offers a comprehensive examination of the diverse and complex issues surrounding Black families. Leanor Boulin Johnson and Robert Staples combine more than sixty years of writing and research on Black families to offer insights into the pre-slavery development of the Black middle class,

The Baffled Parents Guide to Stopping Bad Behavior  BOOK
The Baffled Parents Guide to Stopping Bad Behavior shows parents how to keep bad behavior to a minimum. Written by a mother of three, this concise guide addresses specific normal behavior issues of children from toddler hood through early school years--including tantrums, talking back, and aggressiveness, as well as coping with bedtime and getting ready in the morning--and includes fourteen simple practices for inspiring good behavior in young children.

Boy Talk: How You Can Help Your Son Express His Emotions
In Boy Talk, psychologist Mary Polce-Lynch draws on her own extensive research to help parents understand why so many open and expressive little boys turn into locked-down, uncommunicative adolescents who often don't seem to have a clue about their own inner lives.



Celebrations That Touch the Heart: Creative Ideas to Make Your Holidays and Special Events Meaningful   BOOK
Add Meaning and Joy to the Significant Celebrations of Your Life! We all want our celebrations to be meaningful times in which we can affirm those we love, celebrate life, and recognize God's graciousness.

The Childhood Roots of Happiness: Five Steps to Help Kids Create and Sustain Lifelong Joy    BOOK

Here, at last, is a book brimming with the good news of raising children—the basic reassuring news about happiness and unconditional love, about enduring family connections and kids who grow up right. Edward M. Hallowell, M.D., father of three and a clinical psychiatrist, has thought long and hard about what makes children feel good about themselves and the world they live in.


Children Learn What They Live: Parenting to Inspire Values BOOK
Dorothy Law Nolte, a lifelong teacher and lecturer on family dynamics, presents a simple but powerful guide to parenting the old-fashioned way: instilling values through example. Dr. Nolte's inspiration ů Children Learn What They Live, the celebrated poem she wrote in 1954.

Common Sense Parenting Skill Cards :
BOOK
Refresh parents' memories of how to use techniques such as Effective Praise and Corrective Teaching.

The Confident Child: Raising Children to Believe in Themselves  BOOK
Raising confident, motivated, and caring children is a parent's greatest challenge. Drawing on her own extensive research on children and parents, and on the concept of emotional intelligence which Daniel Goleman brought to public attention in his groundbreaking and best-selling book Emotional Intelligence, Terri Apter has created a strategy based on emotional coaching - learning to respond appropriately to a child's feelings - for parents to promote self-esteem in children.

Dreamers, Discoverers, and Dynamos: How to Help the Child Who Is Bright, Bored, and Having Problems in School  BOOK
Does your imaginative, computer-proficient daughter tune out in the classroom? Does your spirited son become headstrong and aggressive when faced with the simplest decisions? Does your bold, energetic child have trouble focusing on basic tasks?

Go to Your Room!:Consequences That Teach   BOOK
And the list goes on and on. Children’s everyday misbehavior presents a steady supply of challenges for parents. How do you make your discipline effective? How can you select guidance techniques that will actually change your child’s behavior?

Great Big Book of Children's Games   BOOK
Games play a crucial role in a childs development, helping children to discover and understand the world around them. Parents are always on the lookout for new games and activities to play with their kids.

Effective Skills for Child Care Workers: A Training Manual    BOOK
This manual describes a rigorous preservice training program for child-care workers, one that entrusts considerable authority, autonomy, and accountability in them. Topics include professionalism issues, principles of behavior, tolerance levels, Preventive, Corrective, and Intensive Teaching techniques, relationship development, social skills, problem-solving, and youth rights.

Fifty Great Tips, Tricks, and Techniques to Connect with Your Teen
   BOOK
Warm and heartfelt advice from a practicing psychologist and fellow parent, this book offers fifty ways to connect with your teen. Through humorous anecdotes and endearing stories, find insight into the heart and mind of your adolescent child. Exercises like Talking in the Dark, Finding the Missing Piece, and Open the Door to Humor, instruct and provide common ground that you and your child can use to pull though difficult moments and open up to each other’s point of view.

Fighting For Your Marriage   
BOOK
Fighting for your Marriage can help you and your partner beat the odds and master the skills that can prevent marital distress and divorce.

Grounded for Life?! Stop blowing your fuse and start communicating with your teenager    BOOK
This book is for parents who feel responsible for their teen’s hair, clothes, bedroom, grades, and behavior. Tracy offers a process for parenting that helps parents distinguish the important issues for healthy teen growth.

Launching our Black Children for Success: A Guide for Parents of Kids From Three to Eighteen
Launching Our Black Children for Success is a groundbreaking book that goes beyond the typical "how to get your kid into the best school or college" advice.

Magic Tools for Raising Kids : Tools for Everyday Parenting Series   BOOK
Parenting young children is easier and more effective with a toolbox of useful, child-tested, positive tools that are versatile enough to fix or prevent most problems. Magic Tools shows parents

Parenting Your Adopted Older Child: How to Overcome the Unique Challenges and Raise a Happy and Healthy Child
BOOK
This is the only book to address all of the challenges faced by the increasing number of parents who adopt children older than two years, from the U.S. or abroad; and provide them with proven ways to overcome common problems and develop healthy, loving relationships with their child.

The Plug-in Drug: Television, Computers & Family Life   BOOK
How does the passive act of watching television and other electronic media-regardless of their content-affect a developing child's relationship to the real world? Focusing on this crucial question, Marie Winn takes a compelling look at television's impact on children and the family.

Parents Do Make a Difference   BOOK
Finally, a book that shows you how to teach kids the eight indispensable skills-self confidence, self-awareness, communications, problem solving, getting along, perserverance, and empathy-they'll need for living confident, happy, and productive lives.

Positive Parenting from A to Z  BOOK
"A valuable book for the busy parent. Karen Joslin knows how to use both love and power in parenting, and presents easily understood solutions to common problems."

Please, Don’t Call My Mother!” How Parents and Schools Can Team Up to Get Kids Back on Track  
BOOK
Discipline, most parents and teachers will agree. But that doesn’t necessarily mean more or even stricter rules, believes Lazares, an experienced school administrator with a special interest in middle-school students.

Quirky Kids: Understanding and Helping Your Child Who Doesn't Fit In- When to Worry and When Not to Worry   BOOK
The toddler whose tantrums scare all the other kids on the playground . . . The three-year-old who ignores all his toys but seems passionately attached to the vacuum cleaner . . . The fourth-grade girl who never gets invited to a birthday party because classmates think she’s “weird” . . . The geek who is terrific at math, but is failing every other subject.

Raising Resilient Children   BOOK
In this seminal parenting work, renowned psychologists Robert Brooks and Sam Goldstein explain why some kids are able to overcome overwhelming obstacles while others become victims of early experiences and environments.

Raising Emotionally Intelligent Teenagers: Guiding the Way for Compassionate, Committed, Courageous Adults 
BOOK
The world before September 11, 2001, was challenging enough for parents of teenagers. Now it is more so. Our families, schools, and workplaces need Emotionally Intelligent Teenagers who will not only be knowledgeable, responsible, nonviolent, and caring youths, but who also will grow up to be compassionate, committed, and courageous adults.

Redirecting Children’s Behavior   BOOK
Improve communication,h elp kids get along, turn conflict into cooperation, use natural consequences, increase parent understanding of children’s perspectives.
Kvols shows parents how to encourage responsibility in children and build self-confident, cooperative individuals.

Single Fatherhood    BOOK
Single father parenting has been burdened by negative stereotypes, pity for the children, doubts about a man's ability to raise daughters, custody inequities, whispers of Mr. Mom, and a lack of guidance and support from the community, friends and role models.

Sons Talk About Their Gay Fathers   
BOOK
In this book, Andrew Gottlieb, author of Out of the Twilight: Fathers of Gay Men Speak, explores yet another side of the impact of homosexuality on families.

Stepfamilies: Love, Marriage & Parenting the First Decade
BOOK
There are more than twenty million stepfamilies in America. For most of them, the simple, daily issues that challenge every family are even more anxiety-provoking. After conducting a comprehensive nine-year-long study funded by the National Institutes of Health, Dr. James H. Bray has written an invaluable book that explains why over half of all stepfamilies fail and reveals the strategies that help the others succeed.

Taking “No” for an Answer and Other Skills Children Need  
BOOK
Healthy families need twelve basic skills to prevent or stop common family problems. The author developed more than 50 games to help you and your children have fun while learning to deal with negative family behavior. The problems fall away as the old habits of interaction are changed through the games.

The Role of the Father in Child Development, 4th Edition
 
BOOK
The Role of the Father in Child Development, Fourth Edition brings together contributions from an international group of experts on the role of fathers in child development. Under the auspices of editor Michael Lamb, this guide offers a single-source reference for the most recent findings and beliefs related to fathers and fatherhood.

What Are You Doing in There?: Balancing Your Need to Know with Your Child's Need to Grow   
BOOK
The "middler years," ages ten through fifteen, have always been characterized by an urge for independence and secrecy from parents. But these days, that secrecy can lead to more danger than ever before. Tackling the frustrations and fears of parenting in a world where cyber predators make headlines every day and "normal" adolescents act out in ways that beg the question "Where were the parents?",

When Anger Hurts Your Kids   BOOK
When Anger Hurts Your Kids brings together the practical lessons of a two-year study of 285 parents. You'll learn how to tell if your family has anger problems, how to combat the 18 mistaken beliefs that fuel anger, and how to practice the art of problem-solving communication-skills that will let you feel more effective as a parent and let your kids grow up free of anger's damaging effects.

Your Angry Child : A Guide for Parents  
BOOK
Your Angry Child: A Guide for Parents was created to provide parents of angry children and teenagers with an up-to-date understanding of the “whys” and “hows” of anger problems. You’ll find specific, focused ways of helping angry children and managing the difficulties that anger causes—some brand new, some time-tested.


VIDEOS

Dealing with Feelings Series:
Children are entitled to their feelings even when their behavior needs to be corrected.

I'm Furious,  
When Matt’s little brother ruins his best baseball card, Matt want to “knock him flat.” Readers will identify with Matt’s feelings, and can help him choose a better way to handle his anger.

I'm Mad,
When rain cancels a long-awaited picnic, Katie decides to be mad all day. Readers help her find other ways to express herself, as she moves on to fill the afternoon with fun and laughter

I'm Exited,
Annie and Jesse are super excited because it’s their birthday. Young children will love helping the twins find activities to release their high energy on this special day.

I'm Proud,
Mandy learns to tie her shoes, but no one seems very excited. Children learn to deal with “put-downs” by choosing from a multitude of options to help Mandy value her own achievements.

I'm Scared,
Mandy learns to tie her shoes, but no one seems very excited. Children learn to deal with “put-downs” by choosing from a multitude of options to help Mandy value her own achievements.

I'm Furious

When Matt’s little brother ruins his best baseball card, Matt want to “knock him flat.” Readers will identify with Matt’s feelings, and can help him choose a better way to handle his anger.

A Change for the Better!   VIDEO
Teach your children better, alternative ways to behave.

AIDS Update: The Latest Facts about HIV and AIDS  VIDEO
This timely program reviews the latest new information on HIV, explains precautionary measures that help to lower the risks of HIV infection and also answers other frequently asked questions about this most lethal of STDs. The FDA recently approved a rapid HIV diagnostic test kit that provides extremely accurate results in minutes. Program explains the new test to teens and provides crucial details on what it means if the test comes back positive. The Centers for Disease Control and Prevention (CDC) has estimated that one-fourth of the approximately 900,000 HIV-infected people in the U.S. are not aware that they are infected. Since the progression of the disease-—and the risk of spreading it to others—-is greatly dependent upon swift response and treatment, there is a great need for young people to get information about their HIV status as quickly as possible. The Teacher’s Resource Book includes activities to help students consider whether their own behaviors are putting them at risk of infection, and provides fact sheets to remind students of the dangers of this deadly virus.

Baby Steps: Adjusting to Parenthood  VIDEO
This unique parenting program gives viewers a close look at four diverse families who have successfully adjusted to parenthood. We hear from all types of parents: traditional moms and dads, single parents, adoptive parents, and parents faced with unexpected complications. They each share their own personal experience with adjustment, including lack of sleep, added expenses, emotional upheaval, frustration, and doing it alone. Experts in the field of parenting complement these stories with tips on juggling all these new responsibilities effectively. The experts also share insights about unusual circumstances like health problems and postpartum depression. By watching this program, viewers learn that becoming a parent takes time, dedication, and lots of love. And it doesn’t happen overnight...it happens in Baby Steps. A Meridian Production. One 20-minute video.

Bad Friendships: Doing More Harm than Good  VIDEO
It is often true in life that we are judged by the company we keep. For middle-schoolers, finding a healthy group of friends is especially important. This program calls attention to the negative impact that can result from having a “bad” circle of friends—-those who are risk takers, betrayers and abusers as well as friends who lie, friends who don’t listen, and friends who are overly dependent. A diverse selection of young people describe their own involvement with bad friends, and identify the characteristics that they now seek in their friends. An adolescent psychologist advises teens who are enmeshed in these types of negative relationships to either change the dynamics of the friendship, or move on to make connections with other, more positive peers. Viewers of Bad Friendships will be provided with important tips on how to make the best of their friendships, and themselves. Teacher’s Resource Book includes role plays and other activities designed to build social competence and self-esteem.

Being Gay: Coming Out in the 21st Century  VIDEO
In the early part of the 20th century, homosexuality was considered a crime—and in some states still is. By the 1950s, society regarded it as a form of mental illness. Today, while gays, lesbians, bisexuals, and transgenders are no longer forced to hide their sexual orientation, there is still prejudice and discrimination which can make coming out a difficult decision. And then there are always internal pressures as well.

Being in Love   VIDEO
This program examines the irrepressible nature of love and the consequences of misdirected desire. Monogamy, "lovesickness," stalking, free love, plural marriage, infidelity, mate-switching, jealousy, spouse abuse, and the health benefits of love are discussed by evolutionary psychologist David Buss, clinical psychologist David Celani, social psychologist Arthur Aron, neurobiologist Antonio Damasio, anthropologist Helen Fisher, Robert Levenson, of the Institute of Personality and Social Research, and others. Footage of experiments that measure empathy and that demonstrate bodily changes associated with emotional states is included. A Discovery Channel Production. (51 minutes, color)

Building Skills in High Risk Families Learning Kit   VIDEO

Bully Proof Kit: A Complete Bullying Program   VIDEO
This unique video/DVD and print curriculum includes the complete Bully Smart Series plus engaging activity cards, role-play scenarios, as well as other activities and posters to reinforce and explore positive ways to recognize and deal with bullying situations. Students are encouraged to work together to build a zero-tolerance policy toward bullying, while practicing skills that will both prevent and reduce bullying problems. Activities also shed light on why people bully and how to spot bullying in oneself.

Bully Smart Series   VIDEO SET or VIDEO
This four-part comprehensive series and accompanying print curriculum deal with bullying behavior students face both in and out of school. Whether the viewer is the individual being bullied or doing the bullying themself, this program offers a fresh view of a serious problem and offers steps to remedy any bullying situation. Skills learned in this series will carry over to an array of circumstances facing youth today and build the assertiveness needed to cope with negative peer pressure, drugs and alcohol, sexual harassment and other compromising situations.

This series consists of the following products:
Bully Smart: Are You a Bully?
Bully Smart: Don't Stand By
Bully Smart: Five Ways to Stop a Bully
Bully Smart: Help! I'm a Bully


Catch 'Em Being Good!   
VIDEO
Shows you how to give praise in a way that will make your child feel good and increase the chances that the positive behavior will be repeated.

Common Sense Parenting® Learn-at-Home Video Kit  
VIDEO
Now, on-the-go parents can enjoy the award-winning Common Sense Parenting® program in the comfort of their own home. A must-have in lending libraries, this kit addresses the needs of parents who lack either the time or the resources to attend evening classes or weekend workshops.

Common Sense Parenting: Parent Trainer's Kit
  
VIDEO
CSP is a skill-based program used around the world. Its logical steps and easy-to-learn techniques address issues of communication, discipline, decision-making, relationships, self-control and school success.

Confronting Date Rape: The Girls’ Room  VIDEO
This hard-hitting program realistically deals with the topic of date rape by examining the relationship between four high school friends whose lives have been affected by a past incident. Each morning before school, they meet to discuss their lives, their loves, and their feelings. As the year progresses, they wrestle with the emotional mood swings resulting from the devastation of being victimized by "a friend." Did she lead him on? Was it okay since they had been dating for a while? She said "no," but was that enough? Contains interviews with rape crisis counselors and psychologists who examine the causes of date rape and the long- and short-term psychological consequences. Explains that this is a crime of anger, power, and control, not sex. Presents strategies for preventing date rape and also provides some great discussion starters for life skills classes or counseling sessions.

Dysfunctional Families/Shame Cycle Video  
VIDEO
Did you come from a dysfunctional family? What is a dysfunctional family, how do the family members interact, and what kind of damage is the result? This video gives you a blueprint of a dysfunctional family, the dynamics involved, how shame develops and how to solve it. It is a map to greater self- esteem and wellness.

Falling in Love   VIDEO
In this program, biologist Robert Friar; anthropologist Helen Fisher; social psychologist Arthur Aron; neurobiologists Semir Zeki and Andreas Bartels; Charles Wysocki, of the Monell Chemical Senses Center; and Louis Monti, of Pherin Pharmaceuticals, talk on topics including the neurochemistry of love, subconscious "love mapping," the vomero-nasal organ, "romance junkies," the stimulating power of dance, and the dynamics of kissing. Experiments that analyze the effects of pheromones, correlate fear with passion, induce bonding through shared confidences, and plot the activation of brain centers in response to visual images of loved ones are featured. A Discovery Channel Production. (52 minutes, color)

Families Growing Together: Difficult Behavior (DVD) VIDEO
Acting out behavior in children occurs for various reasons: to get attention, depression, unresolved anger, peer pressure, or often a cry for help • Parents learn to get at the core of their children's difficult behavior by taking the time to talk straight and rooting out any unresolved pain and issues • For Parenting *

Families Growing Together: Showing Love  VIDEO
Expressing love takes time, thought, and creativity • Some special ways of showing love can be: • Reading out loud a favorite book • Planning a special birthday party • Lending a hand with a child's chores, and taking time to just listen • The Giving of precious time to a child is often the most special gift • For Parenting *

Family of Choice: Volume 5 (DVD)  VIDEO
Often people in highly dysfunctional families decide to leave and cut all ties. Others continue limited family contact, & build a new family of choice, a system to include new friends & professional's who lend support & assistance.

Family Conflict (DVD)  VIDEO
Covers types of conflict and how it can affect the family from: • Parent/child arguments and resolution • Divorce and child abuse situations necessitating the removal of children from their families • and Finances * This title is also part of The Complete Changing Family Series (4 DVD's) item number NIM-74-9-12-DVDW Produced in Australia.
 

Family Ties...Strengthening the Family Unit  VIDEO
Whether it’s special foods, certain games, or favorite entertainment, most families have specific activities that help create family closeness and togetherness. We watch different families create their own method of bonding and discover why it’s so important for every family to make special time for one another. (23 min.) A Meridian Production.

Get a Winning Attitude  VIDEO
Follow the stories of four middle-school students as they discover what it takes to overcome self-doubt and lack of confidence to meet the challenges in their lives. Specific strategies for success are incorporated throughout this realistic program. Students will see the connection between a "winning attitude" and success.

Getting Along with GROARK   VIDEO SERIES
This delightful video series teaches young children valuable lessons that will help them get along well and work out conflicts fairly and peacefully.
In each episode, Groark, an affable, childlike dragon puppet, gets into a tense situation with some of his puppet friends. After he discusses the problem with his partner and adult companion, ventriloquist Randel McGee and a group of real elementary school children, he applies what he has learned and succeeds in bringing about a peaceful, positive solution.

Healthy Steps for Teen Parents Series  VIDEO SET
In an engaging upbeat style, teens get the straight story from their peers on the entire birth experience, from early pregnancy to childcare options. This 3-volume set takes a real-world look at how teen moms and dads can successfully meet the challenges of being young parents.

Homework? I'll Do It Later!   VIDEO
How to work with your child's teachers, to set rules and create an environment that encourages good homework habits, and to motivate your child to do better.

Hugs 'N' Kids: Parenting Your Preschooler     
VIDEO
Ideal for work with abusive parents or for any parent-training group, this program encourages group discussion with simulations of common parent-child impasses and possible solutions.

I Can't Decide!
    VIDEO
How to help your children make better decisions?

I'm Not Everybody!    VIDEO
Teaching your child how to deal with peer pressure.  Peer pressure is best combated by having a good relationship and knowing where and with whom a child is. This video offers suggestions on how to foster such a relationship.

It's Great to be Me!
  
VIDEO
Introduces you to the three components self-esteem and what you need to do to boost your child's chances of being successful, confident, and loved.

The Libido: Sex Drive  VIDEO
At the intersection of human biology and society lies the libido, the primordial sex drive that spans cultures, continents, and generations. This program examines the intimate physiological, societal, and evolutionary forces that have shaped the human sex drive over time and continue to regulate it. Experts such as biological anthropologist Helen Fischer, of Rutgers University, and psychologist David Buss, of The University of Texas at Austin, cover topics including the differences between male and female sexuality, hormones, puberty, restrictive versus permissive societies, the hidden ovulation theory of pair-bonding, and menopause and andropause. Contains mature themes and explicit language and nudity. A Discovery Channel Production. (45 minutes, color)

Love Hurts: The Science of Heartbreak  VIDEO
This incisive program explains the scientific process humans undergo in relationships and love. Joe Herbert, professor of neuroscience at Cambridge University, and Dr. Janet Reibstein, from the Department of Psychology at Exeter University, among others, provide neurological analysis of a fictional young couple dealing with infidelity issues. The physical and physiological effects of stress in relationships are also discussed, and five real case studies—with subjects ranging in age from 14 to 85—are highlighted as they each approach different aspects of heartbreak: infidelity, bereavement, coping strategies, and the struggle to choose a new mate. A Discovery Channel Production. (49 minutes, color)

Negotiating Within the Family   VIDEO
Parents can use charts and contracts- written agreements-both to help children overcome problem behavior and to reach goals kids set for themselves.

No Name-Calling: Creating Safe Environments   VIDEO
This energetic video is sure to grab your students’ attention as it explores the important topic of name-calling. Experts agree that bullying and harassment in school usually starts with name-calling. Name-calling can be especially tough on younger students whose self-esteem development is at a critical phase. No Name-Calling demonstrates the damage that can be done when kids are targeted by hurtful words like “fatso,” “retard,” “faggot,” and “bean pole.” Viewers will follow a classroom of real students as they work on inaugurating a “No Name-Calling” week at their school. Interviews with real kids are interspersed with dramatic vignettes that model name-calling scenarios which many viewers will recognize. The video clearly states why this kind of harassment is unfair, painful and perhaps even illegal. Additionally, the video offers constructive ways for creating a positive school environment where everyone will feel safe and free to learn. Accompanied by a Teacher’s Resource Book filled with thought-provoking worksheets to help reinforce the lessons for students.

No Name-Calling Week Resource Kit   VIDEO
Words hurt. More than that, they have the power to make students feel unsafe to the point where they are no longer able to perform in school or conduct normal lives. Though often dismissed as “harmless teasing,” name-calling reinforces unhealthy peer hierarchies and a rigid social order, especially over time as individual incidents accumulate to become a pattern.

No I Won't! And You Can't Make Me!   
VIDEO
Teaching your child how to keep his or her own emotions under control. No I Won't offers you valuable tips, including a five-step process for teaching your child how to keep his or her own emotions under control.

Parenting Tips from the Pros  VIDEO
Unfortunately, kids don’t come with an instruction manual. But parents and caregivers can benefit from the helpful advice offered by the experts in this program. Leading child psychologists outline effective strategies to help manage your child’s temper tantrums and teach your kids how to cope with their own emotions. When it comes to disciplining your child, you’ll learn about the four C’s of parental conduct—being clear, concise, consistent, and calm. Parent educators demonstrate the best ways to deal with whining and explain how to know when—and when not—to give your children rewards. Created with the best expertise available, this program will make the parent-child relationship a more rewarding and loving one. A Cambridge Educational Production.

Parenting Video: 
VIDEO

Take the stress out of parenting! This self-help video describes the basic principles of effective parenting in a simple and straight forward format

Put Yourself in Someone Else’s Shoes: Building Character  VIDEO
Empathy is a vital human quality, and young children often need help understanding the importance of “putting themselves in someone else’s shoes.” Empathic kids get along better with peers and adults, can see things from differing points of view, bring sensitivity to their interactions with others, and can more readily resolve conflicts.

Real People How Not to Be a Victim: Violence Prevention  VIDEO
Being harassed at school, targeted while using the Internet, or left alone at home are realities for many middle schoolers. This program empowers students to feel confident in their ability to protect themselves in the face of violent behavior they may encounter. It shows students how being assertive, developing a personal safety plan, and trusting their instincts can help them avoid victimization and stay safe. Combining real teens' stories with advice from violence prevention experts

Roommates: Harmonious Living or Horror Story  VIDEO
Financially, sharing a living space and expenses has become a fact of life for many, if not most, young adults. We’ve all heard horror stories about roommates—financial disasters, messy habits, complete incompatibility. How can you make sure your roommate measures up? This video covers the reasons for wanting a roommate as well as specifying how to choose the right person for you. Viewers also learn about practical matters like how to divide responsibilities fairly; how to handle food and personal purchases; issues of privacy, cooperation, and courtesy; and how to make sure everyone is financially responsible for paying rent and utilities on time. With a little planning and foresight, having a roommate can be a great experience—not a total nightmare! (18 min.) A Meridian Production.

Setting Your Child Up for Success! :
  VIDEO
Prepare children for new situations or situations in which they've had difficulty in the past.Sometimes problems occur because children don't know how to behave in certain situations. This video demonstrates the technique of Preventive Teaching: how to prepare children for new situations or situations in which they've had difficulty in the past.

Sexual Pressures  VIDEO
Thanks to proactive sex education, even young students know the risks of sex…but as they enter puberty, will they know how to handle the pressure? Where will they draw the line, and what will they do if someone crosses it? To sensitize young adults to the new feelings and rules of behavior that come with adolescence, this program brings together concerned professionals, students, and parents to talk about hot-button issues including sexuality in the media and sexual harassment at school, predatory chat rooms and chatting on the phone with sexual predators, and an anxiety-causing craze: booty dancing. The message? If flirting feels wrong, say so—and then, if necessary, get help…before things go too far. A Discovery Channel Production. (26 minutes, color)

I Should Have Waited  VIDEO
Under constant pressure from peers and the media, one of the biggest decisions a teen has to make is whether or not to have sex. Without preaching, this program presents arguments against having sex too early. In drama format, follow Lisa through her first day of high school where she is shocked to find that sex is everyone’s main concern. Wanting to fit in, Lisa responds to the advances of Jason, a smooth-talking senior. Convinced that he loves her, Lisa has sex with Jason. The next day he is on to someone else, leaving Lisa to face the risks of possible pregnancy, STD’s and HIV. She realizes that one night with Jason may have affected the rest of her life. Lisa acknowledges lessons learned and arrives at a hard new resolution.

Should I Say Anything? How to Decide  VIDEO
Nobody likes a "snitch," and nobody likes to become an "informer." Using vivid examples, this program helps middle schoolers understand that there's a difference between snitching and confiding concerns about a risky or dangerous situation.

Sometimes Friends Mean Trouble  VIDEO
All children inevitably face a time when a friend tries to pressure, belittle, or shame them into doing something they think is wrong. This program helps youngsters recognize these types of situations and develop the strategies to handle them.

Staying in Love  VIDEO
In this program, clinical psychologist John Gottman, founder of the Gottman Institute; Robert Levenson, of the Institute of Personality and Social Research; Helen Fisher, author of Anatomy of Love; Pepper Schwarz, coauthor of The Love Test; Pat Love, author of The Truth About Love; and others address numerous aspects of long-term relationships. The biological need for love, the physiological evolution of monogamy, the role of oxytocin in attachment, the dynamics of sexuality, the four-year and seven-year "itches," and the importance of communication are considered. Footage of an actual counseling session at Dr. Gottman’s "Love Lab" is featured. A Discovery Channel Production. (51 minutes, color)

Stress in the Family  VIDEO
For many students, problems at home can overwhelm every aspect of their lives. This program shows youngsters that though they cannot avoid stressful situations if they exist in their family, they can find ways to deal with them. Rosa's parents are arguing a lot over how much freedom she can have, and she feels she is to blame. Larry's schoolwork is suffering because he is overburdened at home looking after his younger brother while his parents work long hours. Jake's single-parent mother has started dating. Jenna's parents are in the process of getting a divorce and she feels constantly in the middle of their ongoing "battle" to win her over to their "side."

Student Workshop: Don't Be So Bossy  VIDEO
Even young children can learn basic assertiveness skills so they can stand up for themselves and not be overpowered by more aggressive friends. Three different scenarios show youngsters subjected to bossy behaviors and how they deal with their situations, resolving conflict without jeopardizing friendships. Shows bossy children, who are often on their way to becoming bullies, the impact their behavior has on others.

Student Workshop: Handling Your Anger  VIDEO
This hands-on workshop is designed to teach anger-management techniques to middle schoolers. Helps students understand that while they cannot control angry feelings, they can control angry behavior. Provides specific techniques for handling anger, shows the consequences of behavior.

Student Workshop: I Can Follow Rules  VIDEO
One of the keys to being successful in school is the ability to follow rules. It is vital that children develop this important skill at an early age to set a sound foundation for the years ahead. This fun-filled workshop uses delightful songs and realistic scenarios to demonstrate why rules are important, how to develop self-control and how to follow directions. It empowers children to feel good about themselves and helps create a more cooperative classroom.

Student Workshop: Stop Picking on Me!  VIDEO
From her command post at “Bully Control Center,” Major Hassle uses realistic mini-dramas to show youngsters the do’s and don’ts for dealing with bullies safely. Students learn the techniques that will help them contend with one of the most difficult problems facing them in schools. A variety of options to counter bullying behaviors are discussed, including refraining from fighting, ignoring the bully, walking away, using your words, standing up for yourself, looking confident, working as a group and talking to the bully.

Student Workshop: What to Do about Anger  VIDEO
This hands on workshop in anger-management skills helps children get along better with friends, family, and authority figures. Students learn the difference between angry feelings and angry behavior, how to handle anger constructively, and how to deal with angry energy in safe, positive ways.

Suppose That Was Me  VIDEO
This program is designed to increase students’ awareness of the effects their actions have on others. Short, open-ended scenarios illustrate how an innocent joke can lead to an insulting nickname or a thoughtless rumor can turn into a tarnished reputation. Viewers are asked to think about and discuss how they would feel “if that was me.”

Surviving Peer Pressure: You Can Do It!  VIDEO
For teens and pre-teens, staying true to oneself can be a tough act to pull off. This program, presented in a drama format, presents five scenarios where teens are asked to make critical decisions in typical peer pressure situations – whether to raid a liquor cabinet when the parents are not home, teasing and bullying a vulnerable kid out of sight of teachers and parents, excluding a girl from their regular lunch table, being pressured to shoplift in a local mall and being tempted to cheat on an exam because other teens got advance copies of the test. In each scenario, the action stops at a critical juncture and students review six steps to making the right choice: listen to your inner voice, what would you do if you were alone, take a time out, imagine your parents are watching you, is it against the law and finally, is it worth the risk?

Talking About Sexual Harassment  VIDEO
Any type of harassment is difficult to cope with, but sexual harassment in particular is not only devastating, but illegal as well. This workshop presents vignettes that show teens, who often have no idea that their behavior could be construed as harassment, exactly what sexual harassment looks and sounds like. A nationally known expert offers insight and commentary.

Take Time to Be a Family! :
How to hold family meetings  VIDEO
This video demonstrates how to hold family meetings that enhance family communication and sharing, help work get done, develop children's social skills, and help reach family decisions. Includes lots of tips that help make meetings productive and fun for everyone

Teaching Responsible Behavior  
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This video shows parents how to get their children to behave responsibly in areas such as homework, household chores, goal-setting, and more

You Can Choose  VIDEO SERIES
You Can Choose! provides teachers, librarians, and counselors with a terrific springboard for group discussion, and a powerful enhancement to any character education or life skills curriculum.

You Want to Make Me Help with Housework? No Way!
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This video gives you a clear, step-by-step strategy for getting children to help around the house. This video gives you a clear, step-by-step strategy for getting children to help around the house. You will see how to avoid nagging and threats, and how to follow through on consequences.

Working Parents : From The Practical Parenting Series  VIDEO   Provides strategies that working parents can use to achieve a balance of work and family. Focuses on commitment, organization, and compromise.

 

 

 

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